sex drive? what sex drive? during my first pregnancy there was no problem, because we all know, that once pregnant... you can't get any more pregnant. right? right! still feel attractive, adam still thinks so, so whats wrong with the sex drive, on my part... i'll tell you.
right now i work a full-time job, and then go home and 'work' a full-time job. at the end of the day, i just feel depleted. adam is the one who is suffering. im completly okay with having sex occasionally. once, twice, three times a week. lol. and really, i'd be fine just once a week. the problem is now, adam is pestering me for it. i like how stong his sex drive is normally, but right now, it's too strong for me. (and no i don't need any help... or him.) I also wish that he wouldn't use my exhaustion as personal rejection. if i have any energy left , i'd rather just sit and talk, and just relax. we're still right in the middle of our predicament, im thinking at least one solution is time. im thinking if adam helps me a little bit more around the house... more 'you know' would happen, i would have more energy. but i don't think much is going to happen until the lines of communication open up a bit. one thing at a time.
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This entry reminds me when I was overdue with our first daughter Jenn. I was in the same place you are, too damn tired. Anyway, the Dr. suggested that I might want to go home and get naked with my husband and maybe that would help bring on labour. I went home, told Hans, he was all for it. But you have to remember, I was hugely pregnant, 2 weeks overdue. LOL. We couldn't quite figure out how to fit together comfortably. This got me giggling. Then I had a visual, and I laughed even more. As you can likely imagine, Hans fell out of the mood and the labour did not start. I had a good laugh though. Still makes me giggle when I think about it.
ewww...im horrified by this comment...i just threw up in my mouth a bit
LOLOL. I thought about the fact that Jenn and Alia will likely read this comment after I posted it. LOLOL. That's o.k. honey, I got the same bodily response when you had a boy stay over. So, now we are even!
thats okay mary... it made me giggle too. it also made me giggle but at the same time... feel like alia does when my mom told me that her doctor... i wish he was still alive because he seems like a great guy... he told me mom to go home and give the baby a... get this... a shampoo.. gross! but funny at the same time.
the same kind of funny like i told my friend to take a turkey baster to bed, because she wanted to be pregnant so bad... hilarious!! sick humor, i tell ya!
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